Women want a sensitive man who is also strong. Most people, especially due to the values in the family, consider a man cry like finding the weaknesses of men. Men are always expected to be strong even to hold his temper, not like woman crying to express emotion.
“Men tend to change over 20 years ago. The role of gender is not as tight as the past, and changes in economic levels make some men do not show macho side. Men are also easily expressing his emotions by crying. Yet many people still can not accept this change, and this is why man gets no sympathy when the cry, “said clinical psychologist, Michael Diamond, PhD, who is also the author of the book My Father Before Me.
The more mature age men, they tend to be more comfortable with themselves, and have the orientation that emphasizes the relationship with higher sensitivity. Men become do not care what anyone says if seen him cry, as long as feels comfortable, therefore, added Diamond. This character can also be viewed as a power guy.
Nonverbal expert Joe Navarro, author of Louder Than Words to find the meaning behind crying when he watched the scene when some world leaders to cry, such as:
* Wyclef Jean (actor / singer), reacted with tears when the allegations came behind its charitable action. His eyes showed how much this guy fights a deep pain, Navarro analyzed.
* Roger Federer, tennis player who lost in his last game in 2008. This man who shows emotion deep down, with reddened eyes and nose. This only happens when he really cried.
* President Barrack Obama, a day after the death of his grandmother. Changes in his face showed a deep sadness.
* South Carolina Governor, Mark Sanford, who wept after admitting the affair. Emotions that emerge having been caught cheating and emotional feelings of guilt is difficult to distinguish, and this is what emerged in tears.
* Jake Pavelka, participants of the contest Dancing with the STARS, eliminated in episode 10. Blankly far show a deep sadness in his eyes. Forms thin eyebrows indicate discomfort with the conditions and feelings of pain experienced.
MensHealth.com revealed that the reasons for men to cry more because of the death of a pet that is considered as a friend (33 percent), because women (20 percent), touching the baby’s birth (16 percent), betrayal (15 percent), sad films (8 percent), physical pain (6 percent), and marriage (2 percent).